May 22 - June 21
Gemini's ruling planet: ☿ Mercury.
There are but a few women in the world who can resist the allure of an enamored Gemini man! Even if you're barely acquainted, he has the power to make an indelible impression. Within an hour of animated conversation, you'll learn more about him than you would over months of getting to know someone else. However, you learn less about the Gemini himself and more about his occasional charming, sociable, and witty side. Be prepared for the fact that the life of the party from yesterday may turn sullen and acerbic tomorrow, and pensively scattered the day after. But if you patiently endure his bouts of bad mood, you'll be rewarded with another encounter with the dazzling Mister Perfection.
How to Win Over a Gemini Man
Legends circulate about the inconsistency of Geminis, and this doesn't apply only to their fluctuating moods. There's a belief that a Gemini man should have two jobs, two homes, and at the very least, two wives. To some extent, this is true, however, fortunately, not always. If you meet a Gemini who's over thirty or forty, you undoubtedly stand a better chance of becoming his final (second or twenty-second) wife. However, no guarantees can be given here either. Conversely, even if you meet a young, unseasoned Gemini man, you still have every chance of becoming his lifelong partner—if, of course, you match closely with his ideal.
What, first and foremost, does the restless Gemini man expect from you? The answer is simple: freedom. You'll have to accept his perpetual lateness, broken promises, and the impossibility of knowing where he is and what he's doing at any given moment. But to a Gemini, being accountable to you means boxing himself into strict confines, which would deprive his life of the spontaneity as essential to him as air. In other words, by forcing the Gemini man to be like everyone else, by backing him into a corner, you run the risk of quickly assuming the role of his beloved with the prefix "ex."
On the contrary, a Gemini man is fully capable of appreciating your trust and non-intrusiveness. Of all people, he understands how seldom these invaluable qualities occur in women. If your trust is genuine—if, on seeing the Gemini in a seemingly close embrace with a pretty stranger, you refrain from throwing a tantrum and instead calmly sit down to chat—then you are the woman of his dreams. As for strangers, Geminis are inherently sociable. He won't object to a little flirtation. However, if you share a genuine closeness, if he sees in you not only a charming companion but a true friend and confidant, he'll never betray you.
And remember: unlike a woman who loves with her ears, a Gemini man prefers to love with his head. He needs you to share his passions, to have things to discuss with you—and the more intellectual depth and erudition you can demonstrate, the more appealing the Gemini will find it.
Relationships with a Gemini Man
Undoubtedly, living alongside a Gemini man is not easy, especially if you've ever dreamt of the standard comfort of a quiet family hearth. However, only a Gemini man can paint your life in such vibrant, unconventional colors that even Van Gogh could not have dreamt of; only with him can you find joy and interest even forty years after your wedding.
Gemini as a Father
To his children, the Gemini is the best friend—funny and inventive. He won't read boring lectures to the child, preferring to engage in noisy frolics on the floor. It's no wonder that as children grow up, they don't take his demands to study well, clean up their toys, and so on, too seriously. However, they can always tell him all their secrets and ask for advice.