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May 21 – June 20
Gemini's ruling planet: ☿ Mercury.
Few women can resist a Gemini man in love. Even if you've only just met, he can make an unforgettable impression. One hour of lively conversation may tell you more than months spent getting to know someone else. Or rather, it tells you how charming, outgoing, and witty he can be when the mood takes him. Tomorrow, yesterday's life of the party may be gloomy and sharp-tongued. The day after, he might be thoughtful and distracted. Wait patiently through the bad moods, though, and the dazzling Mr. Wonderful will reappear.
How to Win a Gemini Man's Heart
Gemini's inconsistency is legendary, and it extends well beyond changing moods. The saying goes that he needs two jobs, two homes, and at least two wives. There's some truth in that, though thankfully it isn't always the case. Meet him in his thirties or forties and your chances of being his last wife, whether his second or twenty-second, are certainly better. Still, nobody can offer guarantees. Conversely, even a young Gemini who hasn't finished sowing his wild oats can become your lifelong partner, if you come close enough to his ideal.
What does this restless man want most from you? Freedom. That means living with lateness, unkept promises, and not always knowing where he is or what he's doing. In his view, having to report his movements would hem him in and strip away the spontaneity he needs as much as air. Try to corner him or make him behave like everyone else, and you may quickly acquire the prefix “ex.”
He can, however, deeply appreciate trust and a light touch. He knows how rare and precious those qualities are. If your trust is real, if you can see him practically embracing an attractive stranger and calmly join the conversation instead of making a scene, you're his dream woman. As for the stranger, Gemini is sociable by nature and enjoys a flirtation. But if you share true closeness, if he sees you as a friend and kindred spirit as well as an appealing partner, he won't cheat.
Remember, too, that sweet words alone won't win him. A Gemini man falls in love with his mind. He needs shared interests and someone he can talk to. The more intelligence and breadth of reading you bring, the more he'll enjoy your company.
Life with a Gemini Man
Living with him isn't easy, especially if your dream was a conventional, quiet, cozy home. But he can bring colors into your life that even Van Gogh never imagined. With him, you can still be laughing and finding things fascinating forty years after the wedding.
The Gemini Man as a Father
To his children, Gemini is a wonderfully inventive, fun-loving friend. He'd rather tumble around on the floor with them than deliver a tedious lecture. Little wonder that, as they grow, they don't always take his instructions to study or put away toys seriously. Yet he's the parent they can always tell their secrets to and ask for advice.
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