March 21 - April 20
Aries' Planet: ♂ Mars.
Have you been dreaming since childhood of passionate and intense relationships? Keep this in mind: an Aries man is just what you need. An Aries man's feelings are not only strong but surprisingly romantic; a lovestruck Aries delights in idealizing the object of his affection, placing them (that is, you) on an untouchable pedestal. The ensuing pleasant consequences follow: flowers, gifts, candlelit dinners...
However, remember: any pedestal's downside is that it's easy to fall off. So, when dealing with an Aries man, try not to shatter his romantic perception of you – at least until marriage.
How to Win Over an Aries Man
Does Aries idealize you? Become that ideal! Since Aries is a real man, you'll need to be a real woman in every respect. To start, let him take the initiative in your relationship. Nothing can scare off an Aries like your insistence and excessive activity.
Furthermore, make sure you don't indulge your laziness in both communication and cohabitation – always look put-together, even at home. Wear tastefully chosen clothes, keep your makeup subtle, and keep a mischievous sparkle in your eyes – then the Aries man is yours forever.
On the other hand, the best way to break up with an Aries man forever is to give him a reason for disappointment and suspicion. Aries is a romantic and an idealist, seeing you as a celestial creature. Even innocent (from your perspective) flirting in his presence is simply unacceptable! You'll be unable to convince the infuriated Aries that you just wanted to test his feelings and make him a little jealous. Remember, an Aries' feelings are hot enough, they don't need testing. Besides, jealousy and flirting don't fit into his perception of you as the perfect Juliet.
Relationship with an Aries Man
From his side, a straightforward and honest Aries is not prone to infidelity. As long as he's in love with you – even if twenty years have passed since the wedding – there's no room in his life for intrigue or affairs. It's not surprising, as he imagines love to resemble a romance novel, or at least to be just as elevated and vibrant. If he feels that's not the case, he won't deceive you or drag it out. In the worst-case scenario, he would rather honestly leave the family than make up for a lack of romance somewhere else.
An Aries man is characterized by honesty, straightforwardness, energy, and the desire to be first in everything. When marrying him, you should clearly understand that from now on, there's no room for emancipation in your life. Aries can appreciate and even encourage your independence in your career, but in the family, he is the unequivocal leader and expects you to accept this fact as a given.
At home, an Aries man can sometimes vent his anger. His outbursts of rage are entirely unpredictable. Arguing with him at this moment is like arguing with a raging hurricane. Only when Aries calms down (which will happen rather soon), is there a chance he will listen to your arguments.
By the way, one way to trigger such a fierce rage is to criticize Aries for anything. Even if your criticism is justified, remember that it affects Aries as much as a red cloth in front of a bull's nose.
But the most surprising thing is that despite all his love for domesticity, Aries needs to see personality in you! A passive woman living only for her husband's interests is definitely not his type. Paradoxical, isn't it? But it's precisely such a combination of independence with unconditional admiration for him that an Aries man expects from you. Essentially, to achieve this, all you need to do is love Aries with all your heart. That is, the same way he loves you.
Aries as a Father
Aries is a wonderful father. He loves children and is genuinely proud of them. True, sometimes he shows too much persistence in upbringing and can put pressure on the child, but overall, he manages to find common ground with children quite well.