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March 21 – April 19
Aries' Planet: ♂ Mars.
Aries Personality
Aries was born to lead. There's no getting around it. Meet an Aries and you'll feel it almost immediately: an unshakable belief in themselves, and an equally unshakable belief that they're right.
Even in silence, every gesture says they know where they stand and have no intention of budging. Once they start talking, well... let's just say arguing with an Aries isn't a promising use of your afternoon.
There's a reason for that. Aries comes first in the zodiac, representing the beginning of life itself. That's why astrologers everywhere have compared this sign to a newborn. In the Aries universe, “me” comes first. As far as they're concerned, the world revolves around them and ought to arrange itself accordingly. Other people's wants and needs can slip right past them; their own receive devoted attention.
A baby who wants something announces it to the entire room. Aries takes much the same approach, demanding what they believe is rightfully theirs from everyone around them, including fate. Why take the scenic route when you can go straight after what you want? Curiously enough, that confidence often pays off. People, and life itself, really do meet this self-absorbed sign halfway.
Other childlike qualities make that selfish streak, even the vanity, much easier to forgive. It's hard to stay angry with someone who explores the world with such boundless curiosity, rushes recklessly to defend the vulnerable, and believes every word you say. Aries is sincere and honest, and expects you to be, too.
What Makes Aries Tick?
One priceless thing about an Aries: you won't have to wonder what they're plotting behind your back. There is no hidden agenda. What you see is what you get. If something about you bothers them, they'll say so, plainly. Should it turn into a fight, it doesn't take much to set them off. Expect a sudden, spectacular burst of anger, followed by a clearing sky almost as quickly as the storm arrived.
Aries has no qualms about telling people exactly what they think, which isn't always flattering. Yet, like a child, they long for recognition, approval, and praise. For all that confidence, sometimes more than is good for them, criticism can cut surprisingly deep. A compliment, even shameless flattery, can send them soaring.
At work, Aries wants to lead, reach the goal, and ideally earn recognition and fame along the way. Often, they do. Independent and energetic, they're willing to take responsibility. When things go wrong, optimism and extraordinary self-belief keep them from giving up for long. They have the makings of a natural leader, with every chance of reaching the top.
Honest and open, active and determined, brave and generous, with a fierce sense of fairness: that's Aries in the lead. Whatever stands in the way, they'll press ahead and clear a path for everyone following. Their energy is as boundless as their faith in themselves. They want everything life has to offer, and they're eager to share it.
Aries' Element and Ruling Planet
Fire gives Aries their optimism and passion. Their ruling planet, warlike Mars, adds drive and determination.
How to Connect with Aries
Never open a conversation with an Aries by unloading your problems. If you want to complain about life or ask for help, first ask how they're doing. They're the center of the universe, after all, and they expect to decide where this conversation goes.
To get them to listen, start by being a good listener yourself. Contradicting them or offering the opposite opinion is off the menu for now. Only then might they be willing to discuss what's on your mind. Make your story vivid: Aries appreciates someone who can tell it well.
For all their desire to lead the conversation, Aries can't stand passivity or people who don't know what they're talking about. They enjoy a lively exchange with someone knowledgeable and will happily discuss a subject you're an expert in. Just don't expect open praise or an admission of defeat. More likely, they'll try to show you that they know a thing or two themselves.
An Aries will never admit you changed their mind. Even if you did, they'll act as though they reached that conclusion on their own. If you'd rather avoid a fight, play along and let them have it. Trying to prove you're superior is the worst move you can make; they can't stand a rival. Ask for their advice, on the other hand, and you'll go straight onto their list of favorite people.
