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November 22 – December 21
Planet of Sagittarius: ♃ Jupiter.
The Sagittarius man seems to be one of fortune's favorites. Ever met someone who could apparently win even a rigged game? If you doubt such people exist, get to know a Sagittarius. He'll probably have stories like this: found some cash on the sidewalk, bought a lottery ticket, won a trip to Mauritius.
That doesn't mean he's lucky every time, everywhere. Otherwise, all Sagittarius men would be living in Mauritius. But you probably don't have quite so many stories like that yourself, do you?
Perhaps the secret is that he doesn't chase good fortune. He accepts it. Like a child, he cheerfully trusts chance while remaining optimistic and sure of himself. Life's bumps and bruises are simply part of its variety. That childlike wisdom ends up bringing some very grown-up rewards.
How to Win a Sagittarius Man's Heart
His easy manner appeals to women as much as it does to fate. Charming, outgoing, and full of life, he can sweep you off your feet in no time, and happily lose his own head in return. Hoping for a lasting relationship with this changeable man, though, means taking on a challenge.
To active, curious Sagittarius, marriage looks like something that will shrink his horizons, in love and in every other part of his busy life. If you want a proposal, you'll need to convince him otherwise.
Live with some of the same independence he does. Keep busy and show him a wide range of interests in which he matters, but isn't the entire point. Theater, exhibitions, friends, skiing, hobbies: let him see a life as lively and restless as his own.
A little jealousy can also change his perspective. If he rejects romantic obligations, why should you accept them? Suggesting that you, too, appreciate freedom may help him see why a few commitments and limits can be worthwhile.
Above all, demanding an account of every move is the quickest way to send him running. You won't always know exactly where he is or when he'll be home. Jealousy won't help. His love of freedom and occasional disorganization belong to the same nature that makes him spontaneous and surprising. If you can live with that, you may calm his alarm at the prospect of a wedding.
Life with a Sagittarius Man
Marriage won't transform the arrangement. At best, he'll invite you to share some of his many interests, not all of them. Your efforts to make a cozy home, even excellent cooking, may leave him unmoved. Impress his friends at a gathering, though, or pull on a team jersey and shout yourself hoarse beside him at a game, and he'll appreciate it.
Even after a baby arrives, he expects you to be as ready for an outing as ever. Grandparents may find themselves asked to babysit fairly often.
Life with Sagittarius isn't simple, but if you wanted quiet predictability, you'd probably have chosen someone else. Being with him suggests you enjoy adrenaline, sports, and excitement, and that lasting sense of freshness and possibility. At those things, he has no equal. At heart, he'll always be eighteen, and he'll gladly share the secret of staying young with you.
The Sagittarius Man as a Father
A screaming infant can horrify him. Early on, he may find even more reasons than usual to be away from home. As the child grows and becomes someone he can play with, the relationship gradually finds its feet.
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