Venus and Neptune in Your Birth Chart

Conjunction: Venus and Neptune

Under this aspect, your feelings run deep and can become extremely intense. You're capable of idealizing love and relationships, and because of that you sometimes fall into wishful thinking or find your fondest hopes unfulfilled.

You can create an ideal image of the person you choose, one far brighter and more perfect than the original, and look at the real person through rose-colored glasses. It's thanks to Venus conjunct Neptune that you can fall in love at first sight and not fall out of love at the second look.

Harmonious aspects: Venus and Neptune

This aspect gives you dreaminess, vivid fantasies, and a sense of beauty. You can quite literally "dissolve" in the enjoyment of art, and meditate on it. In the same way you can meditate in a beautiful place or when you're just thinking of something good.

Neptune is responsible for your ability to "drop out" of reality, and Venus makes these journeys through parallel worlds as harmonious as possible, letting you draw strength and positive emotions from them.

Challenging aspects: Venus and Neptune

This aspect gives you very deep feelings and the ability to lose yourself in your inner world, with all its vivid fantasies and emotions. Yet when reality calls for decisions or immediate action, you can sometimes shut it out and bury your head in the sand. That same hesitation and urge to hide or withdraw can surface not only when you're alone but also when you're with other people. You can feel unsure of yourself, of what you're saying, and of how you look.

Under this aspect's influence, your reason and logic often clash with your feelings and impressions. 'I have to' clashes with 'I want to.' Sometimes your intuition, sharpened by Neptune, wins out. Even so, to ease this aspect's negative effects, try to strike a balance between reason and feeling. Especially when there's something you really, really want to do.