Pisces and Aries Compatibility

The romance between a Pisces woman and an Aries man reads like a story from the nineteenth century: there's a faintly old-fashioned quality to their feelings and a light touch of sentimentality. Between Aries and Pisces, things unfold on a "higher plane," with flowery declarations of love and fights every bit as melodramatic.

Love and Dating

Sometimes an Aries man finds his ideal of femininity in a Pisces woman. She's impractical, vulnerable and dreamy, a bit like Assol, the heroine of Alexander Grin's Russian classic Scarlet Sails, with her innocent hopes. He wants to be her Captain Grey, shield her from the whole world and sweep her away on a ship with scarlet sails. But even once she's aboard his schooner, she goes right on gazing at the horizon and daydreaming, which gets on the practical Aries's nerves. Their romance will be the most romantic story of his life, even though he's no fan of the genre.

Sexual Compatibility

In bed, a Pisces woman and an Aries man may find themselves frustrated with each other again and again: he's passionate and forceful, while she needs a partner who's tender and attuned to her. Quite possibly, Aries won't even notice at first that something's wrong, and she's unlikely to come out and say she isn't satisfied. To find harmony, this couple has to learn to talk openly about what they want, and the secretive Pisces woman most of all.

Relationships and Family

"Just a reminder: we're meeting at ten-thirty sharp! And please don't be late!" "Yes, of course! But that's the fifth time you've told me!" "Because you forget everything and get things mixed up, and this is an important meeting!" If you've ever overheard an exchange like this, with him barely hiding his irritation as he lectures his girlfriend about showing up on time and her timidly assuring him that this time everything will be fine, you're almost certainly looking at an uncompromising Aries and a dreamy, absent-minded Pisces woman. She's actually fairly responsible, but her habit of going with the flow sometimes carries her into backwaters and whirlpools, and it's hard to get out of them in the right place at the right time. That's why the decisive Aries always keeps a "fishing rod" handy, ready to reel his beloved little "fish" out of the backwater!

In their life together, a Pisces woman and an Aries man are rarely equal partners. Their relationship usually follows a "father and daughter" script, or even a "plantation owner and slave" one. So why does a Pisces woman stay in a relationship like this? First, it satisfies her need for a strong shoulder to lean on: someone who solves all of life's problems and moonlights as a reinforced-concrete wall, shielding her from every trouble the outside world can throw at her. And second, Pisces doesn't like change.

Aries, for his part, values her femininity, her willingness to yield, and that elusive mystery hidden in the depths of her enigmatic eyes, a mystery he'll never manage to solve. For that, he's ready to forgive her even a missing hot dinner and dust on the windowsill. Beside a fragile Pisces woman, Aries feels capable of any heroic feat and can climb to tremendous heights in his career. The catch in their relationship is the pressure he puts on her. The fact that Pisces puts up with it doesn't mean she likes it. Only if Aries changes his tone at home to something more democratic will this relationship last.

Let's be honest: an Aries woman and a Pisces man don't often choose each other. They're like an art-house film buff and a woman who loves lowbrow comedies. To put it mildly, their interests don't overlap much. Their worlds are unlikely ever to meet, but their bodies feel wonderfully at home together. And after all, hot embraces and kisses make an excellent substitute for negotiations between lovers!

Love and Dating

From the very first days, an Aries woman and a Pisces man often rewrite the standard rules of the game. Chances are she'll be the one doing the pursuing, not him. An Aries in love is used to acting decisively, so while Pisces is still gearing up to ask her out, she's already booking a table at a restaurant.

She's drawn to his rich inner world and his obvious sensuality. He loves her brightness and her endearing habit of running the show, and with him, there's really no other way. In short, the happiness of this couple rests entirely in the Aries woman's hands. If she decides they'll be together, they will be, and if she wants them to be happy, they'll be happy.

Sexual Compatibility

In bed, an Aries woman and a Pisces man are a great match, because both of them love sensual pleasure. He can dive to the very depths of her sexuality and uncover every one of her secret desires. Pisces may not want sex as often as energetic Aries does, but the nights she spends with him are unforgettable!

Relationships and Family

Watch a Pisces–Aries couple from the outside, and you'll notice that she fusses over her partner a great deal (sometimes too much!). She constantly worries about what he eats, what he says and what he does. Pisces looks after her too, though in a less hands-on way. These two may bicker often, but on the things that really matter they usually stand together, and many couples would envy how well they agree.

An Aries woman and a Pisces man can easily spend their whole lives together. Once they've signed the marriage license, neither of them is in any hurry to tear it up. At times, though, they lack a full spiritual closeness, because their inner universes are simply too different. Even when they try to open up, it's as if they're speaking different languages.

Everyday life, on the other hand, rarely gives them anything to argue about. The home is entirely her territory, and Pisces pitches in only when she gives him a clear assignment. These two can live long and happily in perfect harmony if the Pisces man has made a success of himself out in the world. In that case, even if she never fully understands his "hang-ups," she accepts them gladly. Sometimes, however, Pisces goes through stretches of soul-searching. During these periods he may withdraw into himself and pull away, forgetting his important role as the family's breadwinner. The Aries woman has no intention of following him on these deep-sea dives.

To keep this relationship afloat, Pisces shouldn't lose touch with reality, and his partner shouldn't rush things or ratchet up the tension. If the Aries woman helps him believe in himself, this talented Pisces man can move mountains for her!